Discover Your Dating Blindspots: Unlock Your Path to Secure Love

Are you wondering why you're struggling to attract an emotional available partner?

Identify which of the four unique dating archetypes you embody and learn the specific patterns that could be holding you back from finding true love.

Are you feeling hopeless about love after one too many disappointments?

I know how confusing and lonely this process can be.

Even after years of working on myself, I still found myself attracting emotionally unavailable men.

I didn't want to go online to meet my person, I craved a good story.

I wanted to feel that "spark" and that excitement I felt with guys (that was most of the time not good for me)

I kept experiencing micro (or macro) moments of rejections when it came down to talking about feelings and or going deep.

It felt like no matter how hard I tried, I still couldn’t break the pattern.

It didn't help that coming from a South Asian background, being single at 30 meant that I received constant reminders from my family that I wasn't trying hard enough to find a partner.

I even listened to people who told me “stop looking for the one, he’ll come when you least expect it”.

I waited for years and he never came.

I knew my attachment style, but JUST knowing didn’t make a difference.

Nothing worked.

Right when I was about to give up, I discovered my true blindspot!

Everything started to change from then.

Meet Your Guide on the Journey to Love: How I Transformed My Dating Life

Just like many of you, I was stuck in a cycle of unfulfilling relationships.

It wasn't about the lack of good men.

It was about what I believed I deserved.

It was about my unconscious programming around dating.

These beliefs subtly controlled my dating life without my realising.

I tackled my dating blindspots.

I uplifted my self-worth.

This changed not just my love life but also my career.

Now, I'm married to the man of my dreams.

Our relationship? It's built on mutual values, deep intimacy, and continual growth.

It’s hard being single.

Why?

Society still unconsciously projects inferiority on single women who are without a relationship, or a husband, or a child. As if something must be wrong with her. They see success only when she has those things.

It’s hard to keep self esteem high when you’re constantly bombarded with these defeating messages.

The truth is, it’s not having all those things that makes you awesome or worthy… it’s KNOWING you are worthy and awesome that brings you those things.

Sometimes having a relationship just becomes about feeling good about yourself, when it shouldn’t.

It should be about finding the right person who wants to create a loving and expansive life with you!

Find out what’s keeping you from having that secure relationship

What is Your Dating Blindspot Archetype?

  • The Giver

    The Giver is endlessly generous and nurturing, often prioritizing their partner's needs over their own, which can result in unbalanced relationships where their own emotional needs are neglected.

  • The Striver

    The Striver aims for perfection in relationships, setting high standards for themselves and their partners, but they may struggle with emotional intimacy due to their focus on achievements and appearances.

  • The Guarded

    The Guarded archetype is protective and cautious, building strong emotional defenses to avoid getting hurt, which often keeps them from forming deep and meaningful connections.

  • The Seeker

    The Seeker is driven by a deep yearning for connection and authenticity, constantly searching for a soulful bond and often idealizing relationships, which can lead to cycles of emotional highs and lows.

HOW WILL THE QUIZ HELP?

Our blindspot archetype quiz isn't just another personality test. It's a deep dive into the patterns and habits that are holding you back from finding true love.

  • Learn from the Past
    This quiz helps you connect the dots, revealing how your past experiences are influencing your current search for a partner.

  • Strategize for Success
    We provide tailored strategies designed to push you toward personal growth and relationship success. You'll have practical steps to implement right away.

  • Be Inspired by Real-Life Success
    You're not alone in this journey. Along with your results, you'll receive inspiring stories of individuals just like you who faced similar challenges and overcame them to find love. These stories serve as proof that change is possible and within reach.

More on your Guide

Hey Lovely, I’m Taran

I'm a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor and dedicated Dating & Relationship Coach for South Asian women. I embarked on this path fueled by my personal struggles with low self-worth and challenging relationship dynamics. Through my journey, I've gained extensive training in Somatic Experiencing by Peter Levine, integrating somatic practices into every aspect of my work to help clients connect deeply with their bodies and emotions.

I am also certified in the highly esteemed Gottman Institute Relationship Program, renowned for its research-based approach to building strong, lasting relationships. Additionally, my background includes specialized training in Ayurveda and yoga, with a focus on feminine embodiment, allowing me to offer a holistic approach to relationship healing and personal growth.

My mission is to empower you to call in and thrive in fulfilling relationships, transforming your challenges into opportunities for deep, personal healing. I infuse all my training into my work, providing a comprehensive, empathetic, and effective coaching experience designed to help you thrive in love and life

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